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The Information Dojo: New Directions

Friday, July 25, 2014

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New directions for The Information Dojo

Hello all! Lately, I've been pondering my blogging strategy and topics for The Information Dojo. I've been blogging for almost four months but have yet to get any long-term subscribers. And I want to start building my list seriously. So, I'm switching up my strategy, topics and website design.

New website coming! 

Sometime next week (I hope) I plan to launch my new WordPress website. I'm working with an excellent web designer, Charlie, from Charfish Design, and he has so totally brought my ideas to life. I'm super excited to launch it and can't wait to make the transfer from Blogger to WordPress.

New topics! 

I realized that I had too many topics I was trying to cover in my blogging. And I'm whittling it down to several that I feel are the most important for the direction I want to take my blog.

My new topics will include:

  • Personal Knowledge Management 
  • Creativity 
  • Confidence 
  • Courage 
  • Writing 
  • Blogging 
  • Technology
  • Mindfulness 

While I was re-evaluating my topics, I realized just how important the concepts of confidence and courage are to me and how I've lived my life so far. As a result, I will be including them in my blog from now on and I think they fit in nicely with the rest of my topics. 

I'm both nervous and excited for this new step and I hope you will continue to follow me in my blogging journey  :) 


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Mindfulness and New Experiences

Thursday, July 24, 2014


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Hello everyone, I'm sorry this post is a day late. I've been dealing with horrible allergies the past week and it's the first time in my life that I've had them. So, it's been a new experience to say the least and it gave me the inspiration for this post.

My new experience

New experiences can be terrifying and scary, particularly when they are so far from what we normally do. Six months ago I made the decision to move to Vermont for my new job. Before moving here, I had never lived outside of my home state of Illinois. Why did I decide to move to Vermont when I could have tried to get a job closer to home?

Because I knew myself. I knew I needed to grow and I couldn't stay where I was to do that. I wanted to experience new places and new interests. And in the six months I've lived here, I come to know so much more about myself and what my interests and hobbies are.

How can we stay mindful in the midst of new experiences?

There have been many times where I wondered if what I did was the right thing for me. Sometimes, everything just completely overwhelms me. I've felt sad, angry, and homesick on numerous occasions since moving and I've wondered if my job is right for me more than once.

How did I get myself out of these funks? By recognizing that it's just a moment. Every bad day is just that: one bad day. And thankfully, we get a brand new day right after it. 

How did I conquer those overwhelming feelings? By tuning into them at the height of my emotions and remembering to just breathe.

Tuning into my thoughts, feelings, and body for a peaceful moment has hugely impacted how I react to stress. I am so thankful for what those peaceful moments have taught me.

When you are feeling overwhelmed by your new experiences, remember to: 

  • Breathe 
  • Practice gratitude
  • Accept that it's just a moment 

As always, thank you for reading :)


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Tools for Creativity: Focus Sessions

Monday, July 21, 2014

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Creative resistance and uncertainty

This past week I've been having a lot of trouble gaining clarity on my current creative projects. I write blog posts, I'm writing an eBook, and I'm writing fanfiction (for the first time in my life). Needless to say, all these projects require me to think creatively.

And then, this past week, I became stuck. Stuck in my ideas and in my uncertainty. I have been constantly writing now for three months and I love it. I can also now recognize resistance when it rears its great, ugly head. And I recognized my uncertainty about my projects as my resistance to them.

So, how did I overcome my resistance and uncertainty? I had a focus session.

What are focus sessions?

My focus sessions grew out on my need to stop multitasking and to start singletasking. Research has shown that singletasking, rather than multitasking, is much more productive and less stressful.

It's so easy for me to get overwhelmed with all the projects I have going on at once. So, I've decided to start holding focus sessions, where I focus on one, and only one, creative project during a scheduled time.

In a focus session, you:

  • Pick one, and only one, project to work on
  • Declare that you will devote this time to only that project
  • Find a place where you can concentrate (wherever that may be) 
  • Establish a certain amount of time and set a timer 
  • Disconnect from the Internet if you have to
  • Work with other people if that helps you
  • Listen to music if that helps you to concentrate 

Tailor your focus session to be about you and your project. You don't have to make the focus session hours long if that doesn't fit your schedule. It can be as long as ten or twenty minutes if that's productive for you. But devote that specific amount of time solely to your creative project. 

What are the benefits? 

For me, I got clarity and peace of mind. I did my focus session for 30 minutes but I felt relief after those 30 minutes. I knew what direction I wanted to go for my creative project, which gave me more confidence in myself and helped me beat my resistance. 

Sometimes, we need to remind ourselves that we are indeed creative individuals (because doubt can creep in). And focus sessions are perfect for finding that we do indeed know what we are doing :). 

Question: What creative projects are you working on right now? Can you think of one that could use a focus session? 

As always, thank you for reading! 



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Blog of the Week: The Creative Penn

Friday, July 18, 2014


This week I want to look at the blog/website The Creative Penn, which is written by indie author Joanna Penn

owned and maintained by Joanna Penn 

What this blog is about

This website focuses on four main areas: writing, self-publishing, marketing, and entrepreneurship.

The topics covered in the blog include:

  • author entrepreneur 
  • creativity 
  • eBooks and technology 
  • marketing and promotion 
  • publishing options 
  • writing

It's for writers and authors who want to self-publish but either don't know how or don't have enough confidence to try. TheCreativePenn.com has been voted one of the Top 10 sites for writers three years running. The blog features both a podcast and YouTube video series.

Watch Joanna's Welcome to The Creative Penn video on YouTube.

About Joanna Penn

J.F.Penn is the New York Times and USA Today bestselling author of thrillers on the edge, as well as bestselling non-fiction for authors published under Joanna Penn. She is a professional speaker on creative entrepreneurship, digital publishing and internet marketing, and was voted one of The Guardian UK Top 100 creative professionals 2013.

Why I love this blog

This blog is another fantastic resource for writers and authors. Joanna is so practical in her advice, which comes from her experiences as a writer. She knows her stuff. She also drives home the point that authors and writers ARE entrepreneurs. When you subscribe to the blog, Joanna gives you the free Author 2.0 Blueprint, which tells you more about how to self-publish books and eBooks and is incredibly helpful.

Resources

The Creative Penn - http://www.thecreativepenn.com/
The Creative Penn podcast - http://www.thecreativepenn.com/podcasts/
Twitter - http://twitter.com/thecreativepenn
YouTube - http://www.youtube.com/thecreativepenn


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3 Lessons Learned When Writing an eBook

Wednesday, July 16, 2014


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Recently, I've gotten it into my head that I want to write an eBook for this blog. It will be the first eBook I've ever written and I want to share the lessons I've learned (so far) after two months of working on it.

Lesson 1: Know your blog/website 

This should seem like common sense but it's actually extremely difficult. When I started writing my eBook two months ago, I had no where near the clarity or vision for my blog that I do now. And writing this eBook has helped bring me clarity for my blog in many ways.

I know the changes I need to make and I've found a new vision for my blog. I've hired a professional web designer to redesign my blog to match these changes. In this sense, I'm extremely grateful to my half-written eBook for the lessons it's already taught me about my blog.

Lesson 2: Make an outline

I can't emphasize enough the importance of the outline. eBooks are so different from traditional print books in a number of ways. But the most important thing for an eBook is that it's easy to read. And remember, you're putting your eBook on the Internet, and you'll have no idea where it will end up or with whom.

To make my eBook matter to my blog readers, I needed to put a ton of consideration into the content and how I wanted to present it. This is where the outline became super handy.

Lesson 3: Accept that it's a process

Writing an eBook is a time consuming process. It will be full of both excitement and complete exhaustion. And there will be times where you just want to give up. I know I had many of these moments the last two months. I didn't know where my eBook was going and I was sick of writing in circles.

If you are writing an eBook, or want to write one, remember that it is a process that will take time and energy.  If you're feeling frustrated or stuck (as I was), seek feedback from other people. I'm part of a online writing group and they helped me to get unstuck and clarify my goals for my eBook.

These are the three lessons I've learned so far. I've included a couple of  resources at the bottom of this post that have helped me in writing my eBook.

As always, thank you for reading :)
Melissa

Resources

How to Write a High-Quality eBook in 30 Days from Copyblogger

eBooks The Smart Way by Pat Flynn (from Smart Passive Income)

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Developing an Information Strategy Part 3: Searching

Monday, July 14, 2014


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Searching 

Ah searching. It's always the part that trips people up when you're on the quest for information. It's also the part that can easily overwhelm even the hardiest Internet user.

Even a simple search in Google can turn out to be not so...well...simple. There's so much information available through the web that where do you even begin to find what you need? It feels like finding a needle in a haystack.

Searching is a huge portion of the information strategy pie and there are three important aspects of searching to remember (and these will seem like common sense but we always forget them):

  1. Know what to search
  2. Know where to search 
  3. Organize your information as you search 
We'll be looking at the second aspect in this post. To read more about the first aspect (know what to search) read my post for how to define an information need.

Know where to search 

Okay, so we know what we want to search. And we know our personal process for learning. Now, it's time to pinpoint where you can search for resources.

Google or any other search engine is your best friend in this case and there are many different kinds of resources out there. To name a few:

  • Books and eBooks
  • Blogs 
  • Podcasts 
  • Wikis 
  • Ezines 
  • Magazines 
  • YouTube
  • Facebook 
  • Twitter 
  • Instagram 
  • Pinterest 
  • Bloglovin 

and the list goes on and on. Some of the resources I named are both a resource and a tool for finding other resources. So how do you choose which one to go with? 

Knowing how you learn will be your most effective method for choosing. If you like visual, maybe Pinterest or Instagram would be the best resource for you. If you like audio, then YouTube or podcasts would be a good resource. 

You've got all these choices on the web but how can you possibly look at every one of them? 

My advice: start with just one resource and then branch out 

When you look for resources, I recommend starting with one and then branching out to find others. This will help you avoid complete information overload. 

If you want to start redesigning your life or building a hobby, I recommend looking at blogs because they contain so many different kinds of information at once. One blog may have posts, a podcast, and a YouTube channel (I know of several blogs with all these things). 

For example, I follow the blog Tranquility du Jour, which I've mentioned and reviewed before on this blog. But the reason I mention it the most is because it is THE blog for me. Almost every other book, blog, author, or podcast I now follow was something that I learned about through Tranquility du Jour.

If there's one thing I've found, it's how small the Internet really is once you start exploring it. Everything is connected and one resource can lead to a hundred others.

Question: What one resource have you found that helped you to find others?

As always, thank you for reading :)
Melissa


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Blog of the Week: ProBlogger

Friday, July 11, 2014


This week I want to review the blog/website ProBlogger which is owned and maintained by Darren Rowse.


What this blog is about

ProBlogger is dedicated to helping other bloggers learn the skills of blogging, share their own experiences and promote the blogging medium. Actually, it's the go-to resource for bloggers. If you have any question whatsoever about any aspect of blogging, go to this website.

The blog has posts for bloggers of all levels and features tons of resources, including a page for ways to make money blogging and a page for jobs as a blogger/writer.

About Darren Rowse 

Back in 2002 Darren Rowse stumbled upon an article about ‘Blogging’. He didn’t know it at the time but that moment changed his life.  Within 24 hours of reading the article he had started his own blog – a personal blog where he's explored issues of pop culture, spirituality and blogging ever since. He has since started many other blogs.

As his blogs grew in popularity and began to generate income, blogging grew from a hobby (some would say an obsession), to a part time job through to a fully fledged business in recent times. He has slowly built his blogging into a income source that has enabled him to dedicate more and more time to the medium to the point where he is currently a full time blogger – a ProBlogger.

Why I love this blog

As a beginning blogger, I have found this website and blog to be invaluable. And I respect the owner, Darren, because he started small and worked his way up to this powerhouse of a website. He worked up from blogging as a hobby to blogging as a professional (hence ProBlogger) and I guess I would like to hopefully do the same (someday).

Another aspect I really love about this blog is the emphasis on small steps to building a blog and, eventually, a business. It's a great reminder that it's okay to slowly go through the process of building a blog through lots of hard work and patience in a realistic and sustainable way.

I look forward to purchasing Darren's workbook 31 Days to Build a Better Blog. I also hope to eventually join the ProBlogger Community, which is a home for bloggers to come together to collaborate, learn and network in a private, supportive and authentic environment.

As always, thank you for reading :)
Melissa

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When Should You Start Practicing Mindfulness?

Wednesday, July 9, 2014


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What is mindfulness? 

Mindfulness is defined as "a state of active, open attention on the present. When you're mindful, you observe your thoughts and feelings from a distance, without judging them good or bad. Instead of letting your life pass you by, mindfulness means living in the moment and awakening to experience" (taken from Psychology Today).

When should you start practicing mindfulness?

My answer is to start right now. Start making a conscious effort to live in the moment, to notice all the experiences you have. Do not let them get lost in the flow of life.

Practicing mindfulness is just that: a practice. Like meditation or yoga, you must deliberately practice mindfulness in order to get better at it.

My story

I stumbled upon mindfulness during my second year of graduate school (last year actually). I was stressed out and burnt out from graduate school, working two jobs, and trying to move on from a devastating breakup. I needed to find some peace, comfort, and solitude. And I needed it fast because I knew I couldn't keep going like I was. I was already breaking down and it was only a matter of time before I completely collapsed.

I came across musings about mindfulness on Kimberly Wilson's blog Tranquility du Jour. And in what seemed like divine intervention, Kimberly also launched her e-course Mindfulness: Tranquility Within.

I started my mindfulness practice and have never looked back. It was hard to get into at first, but after I'd done it enough, it made a huge difference in how I approached my life.

How can you practice mindfulness?

Start with your routines. Pick either your morning or evening routine and check in with yourself to see how you're feeling physically, emotionally, and spiritually in the moment.

Practice beginning and ending your day with a focus on you and your feelings and thoughts. Write your reflections down in a journal to help solidify the moment.

Do you practice mindfulness? If so, how did you start?

As always, thank you for reading :)
Melissa

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How To Find Your Inner Artist: The First Step

Monday, July 7, 2014


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I came across a podcast on Goins Writer last week where Jeff Goins interviewed with the author Robert Greene on Learning the Secret to Mastery, particularly as it relates to writing and creativity.

Mr. Greene gave many useful tips in his interview but the one that struck me the most was this:
That people know what they want to do when they're very young.

What if you're struggling to find your inner artist? What's the first step?

It's looking at your childhood.

First, look to when you were a child. What kinds of things did you like to do as a child?

Lately, I myself have been struggling with whether or not I'm a writer. Like, for the past month, I've been doubting myself. Was I wrong in my desire to write? Why is my writing not any good? Will I ever get better at it? Is writing not for me?

After listening to Mr. Greene's interview, I looked back into my childhood to see what I had loved doing. And I realized one important thing.

That even as a child I wanted to be a writer. 

I remember sitting at my grandma's house in her big tan chair with my black notebook and just writing stories in the lamplight while she watched westerns or the Andy Griffith Show.

I wrote stories about true love and my favorite beanie babies.  True, they weren't very good :). But they were written by me with all the innocence of a child. Which makes those stories very precious to me.

What memories do you have of yourself as a child artist? What did you love creating or doing? Was it writing, painting, sculpting with Play-Doh?

If you're struggling to find your inner artist as an adult or doubting your creative abilities, like I was, first look to your childhood. It may have all the answers you're looking for :)

As always, thank you for reading.
Melissa

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Blog of the Week: Goins Writer

Friday, July 4, 2014


Happy Independence Day for those in the United States!

This week I want to review the blog/website Goins Writer, written and maintained by Jeff Goins



What this blog is about 

Goins Writer answers the following questions:

  • How do successful writers make a living?
  • What does it really take to get published?
  • How do you pursue a passion?

This blog is ultimately about pursuing your passion for creativity, especially if your creative passion is writing.

About Jeff Goins 

Jeff Goins has written and guest-blogged for over 100 magazines, publications, and blogs. He is a speaker, creative coach, and consultant. He's published three eBooks:


He also has a podcast, The Portfolio Life and an audio series called The Writer's Studio: Everything You Need to Know to Become a Real Writer.

He runs an e-course called Tribe Writers.

Why I love this blog 

This blog is just...amazing. I absolutely love the content; Jeff Goins covers all aspects of writing and creativity in the most practical and easy-to-understand way. It's just so straightforward.

I can't remember how I came across Goins Writer, but it has made such a big difference in my writing practice. I absolutely recommend his free eBook The Writer's Manifesto and his other eBook You Are a Writer (So Start Acting Like One). I also own his audio series. Can you tell I'm a fan?

Please, please, please, if you are a struggling writer or creative, check out this blog.

As always, thank you for reading :)
Melissa

P.S. I am not an affiliate for this blog or any of Jeff Goins's products. I just like mentioning blogs I have found helpful :) 

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Developing an Information Strategy Part 2: Resources

Wednesday, July 2, 2014

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This is the second post in the Developing an Information Strategy series. You can also read my first post in the series, Developing an Information Strategy, Part 1.

Why resources?

I love the above picture. It fits so perfectly with the topic of this post, which is how resources fit into developing a strategy for designing a hobby or life that you love.

Resources are another one of the puzzle pieces for any goal or decision; they will help you to reach the big kahuna, the final product. A resource is all about new ideas and concepts, stuff that you reallllly want to learn about.

My example: starting a blog 

When I first decided that I wanted to start a blog, I had no clue what I was doing. But I also knew that I wanted a blog. I knew I had stuff to say and that I had to get it out there. I didn't even know where to start. Fortunately, there were plenty of resources out there that I could turn to for help such as other blogs, books, audio, online businesses, you name it. 

I learned the difference between blogging platforms, the importance of an editorial calendar, and about how to find my voice. I also learned what copywriting is and where I can go for help. All of these resources helped me in my strategy to start this blog.

Blogging has been immensely fun for me and I am thankful for all those who came before me for helping me in my journey :) 

What are your resources? 

Chances are that you already know which resources you love to use in your life but I want you to think about it a little more. 

Are you an avid blog follower? Do you love reading books every evening? Do you like reading the paper in the morning? Do you follow vlogs on YouTube? 

I encourage you to use more than one kind of format (book magazine, online, etc.) to help give you multiple perspectives. 

The next post in this series will give you information on how to organize your resources as you find them so that it all doesn't get overwhelming. 

Thank you for reading and until next time :)
Melissa 







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Blog of the Week: Helping Writers Become Authors

Friday, June 27, 2014


This week I want to look at the blog Helping Writers Become Authors, written and maintained by the author K.M. Weiland

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What this blog is about 

Helping Writers Become Authors is all in the title. It's writing advice, particularly in the areas of character development, the writing life, writing inspiration, structuring your novel, and editing your novel.

The blog was awarded as one of the Writer's Digest 101 Best Websites for Writers of 2014.

See K.M. Weiland's introduction to her blog below.


About K.M. Weiland 

K.M. Weiland lives in make-believe worlds, talks to imaginary friends, and survives primarily on chocolate truffles and espresso. She is the IPPY and NIEA Award-winning and internationally published author of the Amazon bestsellers Outlining Your Novel and Structuring Your Novel, as well as the  western A Man Called Outlaw, the medieval epic Behold the Dawn, and the epic fantasy Dreamlander.

Why I love this blog

This blog is one of the most practical blogs I've found on both the craft of writing and the writing life. There is a major difference between the two and I am starting to get into the craft of writing as I've begun writing my own novel. Ms. Weiland provides excellent advice and techniques for outlining and structuring your novel. 

I have also purchased the author's two books on writing: Outlining Your Novel and Structuring Your Novel. I also recently purchased her audio CD Conquering Writer’s Block and Summoning Inspiration

Sources

Website: http://www.helpingwritersbecomeauthors.com/
Author website: http://www.kmweiland.com/
Twitter: https://twitter.com/KMWeiland

P.S. I am not an affiliate of K.M. Weiland's products. I just like pointing out blogs that I've personally found really helpful :)

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Book Review: Writing Down the Bones

Thursday, June 26, 2014


Writing Down the Bones: Freeing the Writer Within by Natalie Goldberg



Why I loved this book 

Writing Down the Bones is extremely useful for a beginning writer. Since I finished graduate school last summer, I thought I would pursue my dream of becoming a writer. 

The thing is, the craft of writing, at least for a novel, is totally different from everyday writing. And since I haven't done any creative writing in years, I'm a little rusty at it. 

The author presents lessons about the craft of writing in easy-to-read, bite-sized chapters. More importantly, she highlights the importance of trusting yourself and believing in your writing. She's also a fan of writing as much as you can, even if it's total crap. 

If you need to find some confidence in yourself as a beginning writer, I highly recommend this book! 

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3 Lessons from a Beginning Blogger

Wednesday, June 25, 2014

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Today I thought I would share the lessons I've learned (and there are many) since I started my blogging journey a couple of months ago. I'm going to limit this post to three for now :)

Lesson 1: choose your topics...carefully 

I had the hardest time, and still do, pinning down the topics I want to blog about. There are so many things I'm into and want to talk about. But I'm learning that I can't just write what I want to. I need to be consistent.

Lesson 2: choose your platform...consider all options

I chose Blogger at first because I already had a Gmail account and several other bloggers I follow use it too. However, my blog, and the other projects I want to do, are quickly outgrowing the Blogger platform.

I just recently hired a designer to design a WordPress site so that I can move my content over to a self-hosted website. It will give me more of a chance to own my content and keep track of it.

Lesson 3: set up a schedule (otherwise known as an editorial calendar)

It took me multiple tries to get my blogging schedule down. This is where you need to know what topics you want to blog about because you need to be able to fit them into a schedule. I had too many topics at first and had to whittle them down.

Whether you blog three days a week or five, be consistent in your schedule. It will help you accomplish your goals for your blog in small steps.

As always, thank you for reading :)

Melissa



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5 Things I've Learned about Creativity

Tuesday, June 24, 2014

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Five Things I've Learned about Creativity

Since I stared exploring my creative passions these past few months, I've learned a few things about creativity. I want to share them with you now :)
  1. All of use are creative - we just have to admit it to ourselves. 
  2. Accept your inner child - this is hugely essential to creativity. Your inner child is not your critic but is your friend and mentor. Listen to her/him and accept what they are trying to tell you. 
  3. Being creative takes work - sure, there are some out there who are extremely talented. But pursuing your creative passions takes determination and effort. 
  4. Being creative is emotional - accept that exploring your creative passions will make you feel all kinds of things, from elation to despair. 
  5. Perseverance is important - always, always persevere. You owe it to yourself to explore your creativity. 
As always, thank you for reading :) 
Melissa 

P.S. What have you learned about creativity recently? 

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Blog of the Week: Sheep Dressed Like Wolves

Friday, June 20, 2014


This week I'm going to look at the blog Sheep Dressed Like Wolves, which is written by Andy Mort.


What this blog is about

Sheep Dressed Like Wolves is the blog and podcast for people defined as reluctant leaders and gentle rebels who long to make an impact in a sometimes strange, absurd, and often overwhelming world. Andy's goal with this blog and podcast is to encourage, inspire, and equip other introverted and highly sensitive people (HSPs) looking to find meaning and variety in their own lives.

He wants to assist them so that they can live out their deep passion and purpose and make their unique gentle impact on a loud world that easily overwhelms them (see the About page for more information).

Why I love this blog

Any introvert will love this blog. I just also happen to be a highly sensitive person and an introvert and I was sooooo happy to find out I was not alone in my struggles. Andy gives out the Gentle Rebel's Manifesto when you subscribe and it was so helpful to understanding exactly what makes highly sensitive people different.

I also recently joined his Member's Haven to meet other highly sensitive people and introverts. Please check out this blog if you are an introvert or feel overwhelmed in our noisy world.

As always, thank you for reading :)
Melissa

P.S. I am not affiliated with this blog or the products Andy sells. I simply like sharing blogs that I have personally found helpful in my journey :) 



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Developing an Information Strategy Part 1

Monday, June 16, 2014


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I've written before about why an information strategy is essential and how to define an information need.

But now I want to move on to developing an information strategy by first looking at how you like to learn.

Part 1: How do you learn?

You've thought about what you want and your goals and you can think about what you need in terms of information to start accomplishing your goals. Now, you need to think about how you learn.

This can be tough (I know, I've been there). Knowing how you learn will help you to locate the resources that will be the most helpful to you. All the information in the world won't help you if your brain doesn't like processing it :) Your stubborn brain will rebel every chance it gets.

Three main types of learners

1. Auditory learners -  you would rather listen to things being explained than read about them

2. Visual learners - you learn best by looking at graphics, watching a demonstration, or reading

3. Kinesthetic learners - you process information best through a "hands-on" experience, like writing

To really absorb information and use it in your strategy, you need to know what kind of learner you are. Most people usually are a mix of all three with one that they strongly prefer.

I found I learn best through hands-on experience. I still write pages of notes when I need to work something out in my mind. Even when I'm listening to or watching something, I need to write notes to really work it out in my head.

What kind of learner do you think you are? Write it down :) 


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Blog of the Week: Positive Writer

Friday, June 13, 2014


This week I am reviewing Positive Writer, which is written and maintained by Bryan Hutchinson.



What this blog is about 

Positive Writer is for fellow writers who are stuck in doubt, uncertain of their abilities, and yet, have an overwhelming desire to create work that matters. This blog will help you to overcome writer's doubt. Bryan writes about the following topics: writer’s doubt, writing, blogging, self-publishing, marketing, creativity, positive thinking, attitude, confidence, perception, and setting and achieving goals. Positive Writer was also named one of the top 100 best websites for writers.

Why I love this blog 

Well, it's about writing and having a positive mindset, which I think is not always obvious to writers. I have found some wonderful advice on this blog about building my confidence as a writer. It's all been advice I really needed to hear. If you've ever doubted yourself as a writer, or even as an artist, you need to read this blog. It's seriously uplifting.

Bryan also gives out a fantastic free eBook Good Enough when you subscribe to his blog and he wrote the book Writer's Doubt, which I can't wait to buy.

I hope you'll stop by and check out Positive Writer. It will change your writing mindset!

Until next time :)
Melissa

P.S. Have a blog for me to review? Please contact me!

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How to Define an Information Need

Wednesday, June 11, 2014


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What is an information need? 

Oh information. We can't do anything these days without you. But where should you start when you need to gather information, particularly if you are considering a different hobby, pursuing your passion project, or want to start your own business? We can't do any of these without gathering info first to see if it might be a good fit for us right? When making new and big decisions, it always helps to research it first before jumping in.

An information need is defined as "an individual or group's desire to locate and obtain information to satisfy a conscious or unconscious need." You could also replace need with goal if you want :)

Defining your information need 

So how do you go about knowing which information you need to help you make your decision? Write out your information need or goal.

I've pulled out three different things to look at when you decide you want to pursue something new and want to research it.

1. What is your goal?

Any information you look for won't really help you unless you have a clear goal in mind for how the information will help you. For what purpose do you want this information? For example, my goal is to write a novel.

2. Look for the problems and questions and list them.

Use these problems to find which information you really need to get started. As you start looking for information, your questions might change and that's okay. For my writing example, I had no clue how to write characters, plot, or suspense. And I knew I needed to research these further.

3. Write (or type) your goals and problems and keep them with you as you begin searching for the answers and resources you'll need.

You may find that other goals and problems may pop up, which is okay.

By defining your goals, problems, and questions early on, you can begin to create an information strategy that will help you in whatever decisions you want to make.

Thank you for reading. Until next time :)
Melissa

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A Year of Creative Habits

Monday, June 9, 2014


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Lately, I've been looking into forming some new habits and I came across Crystal Moody's website Year of Creative Habits. And I thought, I could do this.

Leo Babauta of Zen Habits fame talks a lot about how slowly changing his habits helped him change his entire life. He wrote several bestselling books, has a very successful blog, and has done more than one marathon. I did a review of Zen Habits a couple of weeks ago.

How do you form creative habits? By doing them every day. Pick a time frame and then stick to doing that habit, whether it be writing, painting, etc., and do it for a certain amount of time. I'm going to start with a month and then go from there.

Always remember to start small and build your habit. If you start with a huge goal, you will feel too overwhelmed to make it a habit.

I plan on building my creative habits one day, one month at a time. And I'm going to join Crystal in chronicling my journey. The Year of Creative Habits works like this:

  1. Choose one creative habit.
  2. Do it everyday for one month.
  3. Share your effort/progress with others.
  4. Reflect on the month and make changes.
Accountability is huge in forming habits and it makes the journey easier if you are not the only one doing it. Crystal's project will allow me to share my progress with other artists and connect with them. I know I want to focus my creative habit on writing a book. 

What creative habit would you like to start? 

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Blog of the Week: Tiny Buddha

Friday, June 6, 2014


This week I am reviewing the blog Tiny Buddha, which was founded and is maintained by Lori Deschene.



What this blog is about 

This was one of the first blogs I started to read when I wanted to start changing my life a few years ago. It is fantastic. Tiny Buddha is about reflecting on simple wisdom and learning new ways to apply it to our complex lives—complete with responsibilities, struggles, dreams, and relationships. Over the last four years, Tiny Buddha has emerged as a leading resource for peace and happiness, with more than two million monthly readers.

You’ll find posts about happiness, motivation, inspiration, love, relationships, meaning, possibilities, mindfulness, and letting go. Much of it has its roots in Buddhism, but this is not a site about religion. It’s about ideas that make sense and make a big difference when applied.

Why I love this blog

The wisdom in this blog has helped me through so much crap in the last three years. If you are experiencing hard times, I recommend going to read about other people's experiences. This blog is all about empathy with other people; chances are you are not alone in any of your experiences.

The other great things are the forums, where you can talk and interact with other people. Check out the quotes that are famous on Tiny Buddha. The founder, Lori, also has an ecourse, Recreate Your Life Story. There are also several great books written with the Tiny Buddha philosophy.

Check all of it out and find what is useful for you :)

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How do you handle multiple passions?

Wednesday, June 4, 2014


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Having multiple passions and being a renaissance soul 

This past spring I came across the book The Renaissance Soul by Margaret Lobenstine. I even did a review of it on this blog a while back. The book helped me come to terms with who I am as a creative being. I am not a master of one thing but a jack of all trades. I have multiple passions that I love to do.

But most important of all, this book taught me that it is okay to have multiple passions.

Using focus points 

The book taught me about putting my multiple passions into focus points that can help me to make progress on my passion projects even when I'm feeling overwhelmed. The author recommends starting with four and then adding one more if you really need to.

Well, I went back to the book this past weekend to check in and see if I'm aligning myself with my focus points. And I was pretty much on target. I also decided to make my focus points more specific. My focus points look like this:

  • Reading science-fiction and fantasy and books on creativity and writing 
  • Writing good blog content and building my list 
  • Writing a fantasy novel and becoming a stronger writer 
  • Doing Zumba 

And that's it. Four basic statements. 

Focus points can change 

If I feel that I am not dedicated to any of these focus points, I can always change them. That's the beauty of focus points. They're fluid and always changing to keep up with your multiple interests. You can change any of them without feeling guilty. There's no pressure. 

Read the Renaissance Soul and develop your focus points. I can't tell you how helpful they've been in managing my different passions. 

As always, thank you for reading :) 


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Book Review: The War of Art

Tuesday, June 3, 2014


The War of Art: Break Through the Blocks and Win Your Inner Creative Battles by Steven Pressifeld


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My rating: 6 out of 5 stars 

Every artist or entrepreneur that I follow has mentioned this book. And now I know why. Only two words can describe this book: sheer awesomeness. It is the go-to book for finding your creative passion, for recognizing your Resistance and conquering it.

Resistance is in everything we do and resistance comes from fear. Resistance comes from our Ego, that part of us that helps us to survive in the real world. There is another part of us that is just as important, which is the Self. The Self is that part of us that exists in a different plane of reality; we get our creative gifts from the gods, from our Muse.

Oh, there's so many great lessons in this book. The author breaks up the book into three books. Book one is about defining Resistance. Book two is about combating resistance. And book three is about going beyond resistance to the higher realm, to the realm of the gods and the muse.

Read this book. It will give you the courage to pursue your creative passions.

Check out these visual summaries from www.sunnibrown.com 


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One mindful lesson from Twilight

Monday, June 2, 2014


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My history with Twilight

Being a self-proclaimed nerd and lover of fantasy, I have of course read the Twilight series. They caused quite a ripple a couple of years ago.

I read the first Twilight book in high school, before it even became popular. I found it be accident at my local bookstore and didn't know if I wanted to read it or not. So I wrote the name down and checked it out at the library. Then it became popular and exploded.

In high school, I loved these books. Now that I'm older I can't stand them. There's just so much in them that I personally can't agree with now. If I don't like them, then why am I writing a post about them?

Because they do have some great lessons in the midst of the drama, particularly about mindfulness. I believe that all books have great lessons in them but sometimes it's finding them that's the hard part. For Twilight, I learned a lot about mindfulness.

Creating space in your mind 

There's this one moment, after Bella has become a vampire, in which she is out hunting for the first time and she comes across a human. Since she is a newborn vampire, she shouldn't have any control over her thirst for blood. However, she manages to separate herself from her hunger in her mind and runs away. She creates space in her mind between her desire for blood and separates herself from it.

She separates her mind from an immediate response. At the time of reading the last book, I thought it was really cool. It turned out she had superpowers. Now, I try using it in my mind.

When you practice mindfulness, you try to live in the moment and make decisions after you've reflected on it. Reflection is huge in making mindful decisions. Sometimes, though, it's not clear what you should believe or feel or what actions you should take. Sometimes, you want to immediately respond to a situation without thinking. In these instances, I recommend creating space in your mind between your problem, your feelings, and your choices before coming back to yourself and taking action.

Separating you, your problems, feelings, choices, and actions 

Imagine that your brain is a big room that has four corners. You are in one corner, looking at the other three. Put your problem in one corner, your feelings in another, and your choices in the last one. Go around the room and ask these questions: What is the problem? What are you feeling right now? Why is it so hard for you to make these decisions? What choices do you have?

After you have gone around the room, come back to you. Always start and end with you. And ask yourself What action do I want to take? What action am I going to take?

It always helps to separate from how you immediately want to respond to a situation. Create space in your mind before reacting. Remember to stop, pause, and reflect. Go around the room.

Thank you for reading :)

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Week in Review

Saturday, May 31, 2014

lunch + writing at red hen bakery

week in review 

saw godzilla 

purchased jump business guide

completed assignments for jumpstart your writing class through gotham writers

attended online chat for jumpstart your writing class

finished lesson two of cake for breakfast workbook

had lunch + writing session at red hen bakery 

subscribed to year of creative habits 








weekend plans 

work on writing projects

finish the war of art

do library consulting work 

finish cake for breakfast workbook





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Blog of the Week: The Write Practice

Friday, May 30, 2014


This week I am reviewing the blog The Write Practice, which was founded by Joe Bunting and is maintained by him and his team.

thewritepractice.com founded by Joe Bunting

What this blog is about 

When I started my writing practice last month, I found The Write Practice by googling for writing blogs. This blog will help you to kickstart your writing practice. Joe and his team write daily posts on writing, from doing the outline to looking to get published. There are also tutorials and a digital course for publishing and marketing your book called The Story Cartel Course. When you subscribe to this blog, you also get two weeks worth of writing prompts to help get your started with your writing.

About Joe

Joe Bunting is the founder of the Write Practice. He loves the sound of a good sentence and would like to think of himself as a literary snob but can be kept up far too late by a page turner meant for thirteen year old girls. He would like for you not to know that though. He lives with his wife and son outside of Atlanta.

Why I love this blog 

I love this blog for several reasons and the first is how helpful the posts are. I found everything I need in terms of writing advice from this blog. For example, I've thought about doing NaNoWriMo for a while now and Joe has a great post called 12 Thoughts on NaNoWriMo that every writer should read. I also plan on taking Joe's Story Cartel Course to learn how to publish and market my book. After I'm done writing it of course :)

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The Outline is a Living Thing

Wednesday, May 28, 2014


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For as long as I can remember, I've always wanted to write a science-fiction or fantasy novel. I've had the same ideas in my head for years and now I can't remember where the ideas even came from.

After I was done with graduate school and got my full-time job, I decided it was time to start writing. I knew what I wanted to write and who my characters were. But where should I start with writing a novel? Obviously by writing.

I decided to start with an outline. I'd always used outlines for writing papers in school and they work wonders for me. If I wanted my paper to be good, I always needed an outline first. Why would it be different for writing a fiction novel?

Why you need an outline 

There is no overall agreement in the writing world that you absolutely need an outline for writing a novel. Many writers like the thrill of not knowing what they're writing. For some, the outline is essential. It all depends on who you are as a writer. I recommend trying the outline before you completely reject it.

I need an outline for my writing. And, honestly, I have no clue why. My writing is just better when I have one. I guess it has to do with organizing my ideas before I start but rarely does my outline stay the same once I start writing. But I like having an outline to go back to when I get stuck in my writing.

When you start writing your novel, bring your outline with you on the journey. It's not an unchanging thing anyway. It will change as you start writing. I know mine definitely has.

The outline is a living and growing thing 

Treat your outline as if it is part of your novel. When you are writing and your story changes, take a break to put that change in your outline. This will help you to see if the other parts of the novel you outlined will work with your new material. I'm still working on my outline even now as I write my novel.

There are also many different kinds of outlines and I'll write more about them as I continue to experiment with different ones.

Thank you for reading :)
Melissa

Do you use an outline when you write? 



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Movie Review: Godzilla

Tuesday, May 27, 2014


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My rating: 4.5 out of 5 stars 

Why I loved this movie 

First, it's great science-fiction. Second, it's Godzilla. I saw the 1998 reboot of Godzilla way back when but the 2014 version blew it away.

Godzilla makes this movie. He's more than just a monster. He's smart and he seems more human. He gets tired, he puts himself at risk. Me and several other people found ourselves rooting for him in his battle against the two Mutous. And when he won, there were cheers and claps. And, he was on the side of the humans the whole time. He exists to maintain the balance in the world. How cool is that?

Godzilla is a boss. And if there is going to be a sequel, I will happily go see it.

This movie also does a great portraying the sacrifices of our military men and women. If something like a monster attack were to actually happen in real life, it would be our military who would be paying the price first.

Overall, great science-fiction movie. Go see it :)

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Why an Information Strategy is Essential for Life

Monday, May 26, 2014


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Happy Memorial Day! In this post, I'm going to talk a little more about personal information management and why having an information strategy is so important to designing the life that makes you happy.

Where do you start? 

For the longest time, I lived my life following the formula that has been peddled to the American people since lord knows when. You know, the American dream, the white picket fence, the big house, the family, etc. It represents ambition and I've always tried to follow my ambitions. I did good in high school, got good grades and participated in extracurricular activities. Then,  I went to get my bachelor's degree and graduated with a good GPA and manga cum laude.

I went to graduate school after that. I got good grades and a good GPA, and I got a job within three months of graduating. All of this took a lot of hard work and a lot of sacrifices. Now, I am living in a different city in a different state, working a job I went to school for. I'm extremely blessed, I know, and I try not to take that for granted. I worked hard to get where I am.

And yet, I felt like I was missing something. In my pursuit for what I thought I should do, for that ambition, I sacrificed other things. Friendship and fun are just a couple. Once I was done with school, I realized I had no personal life outside of school. No hobbies and all of the interests I had were school-related. I knew I wanted things to feel different in my life but I had no idea where to start.

How did I change? 

Well, I guess you can say it all started with a blog I began reading. Which led me to other blogs that inspired me to create hobbies and interests for myself and where I could meet like-minded people who wanted the same things that I did in life. Taking in all of this information led me to see what I wanted.

I set about making a strategy for myself to see what else I needed to learn about my hobbies before I began making decisions for integrating them into my life. For instance, I knew I wanted to write a book, but I needed confidence in myself that I could write. I created a strategy for how I wanted to learn to write. I knew I needed a space to practice and where I could get critiques. I knew I also needed it to be on my time, without too many deadlines, because I was working a full-time job and didn't have a ton of spare time.

Then, once I identified the information I needed, I began looking for it. Blogs are a great source of information and one blog led me to the Gotham Writers. One class in particular, called Jumpstart Your Writing, was about building confidence in writing. I immediately signed up for it and I've been writing ever since. I am now working on my first novel.

What is an information strategy? 

An information strategy is a plan, a plan for identifying what you want, finding more information, and using that information to take action steps. It's also about building confidence in yourself. When you have more information about something, you feel more confident that you know what you're getting yourself into.

Don't underestimate the power of having an information strategy. By having one, we can know more about where we want to go in our lives. I'll be talking more about this in later posts.

Thank you for reading and see you next time :)
Melissa



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Week in Review

Saturday, May 24, 2014


lunch + writing at positive pie

week in review 

finished writing for the web e-course through open2study


completed assignments for jumpstart your writing course through gotham writers

worked on writing projects 

lunch + brainstorming session at positive pie


wrote how to be mindful about creative overload

wrote blog of the week: zen habits

joined the harry potter alliance

joined the burlington writers workshop


weekend + vacation plans 

finish insurgent by veronica roth

read the artist's way by julia cameron

work on writing projects

do lesson in cake for breakfast course

do assignment for jumpstart your writing class







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Blog of the Week: Zen Habits

Friday, May 23, 2014


This week I am reviewing the blog Zen Habits, which is written and maintained by Leo Babauta.


What this blog is about

Zen Habits is one of the most widely regarded lifestyle blogs on the internet with more than a million monthly readers. Zen Habits is about finding simplicity in the daily chaos of our lives. It’s about clearing the clutter so we can focus on what’s important, create something amazing, find happiness. Some of the topics it covers include: simplicity, health & fitness, motivation and inspiration, frugality, family life, happiness, goals, getting great things done, and living in the moment.

About Leo

Leo Babauta is a former journalist of 18 years, a husband, father of six children, and in 2010 moved from Guam to San Francisco, where he leads a simple life. He started Zen Habits to chronicle and share what he's learned while changing a number of habits. Find out more about him on his post My Story.

Why I love this blog 

What's not to love about it I think is the better question. Every time I go exploring on this blog, I always find something I needed to read. Leo also blogs a lot about writing, which I find very useful. The theory in Zen Habits is that you can accomplish anything but you have to start small and build your habits one by one. By building habits, you stick to and accomplish your goals.

Leo also offers some courses for building habits, including his Habit Course and the Simple Fitness Habit course. I plan on taking both of these :).

Check out Zen Habits. You won't regret it!

Resources 

Zen Habits - http://zenhabits.net/
Leo Babauta - http://leobabauta.com/
The Habit Course - http://habitcourse.com/
The Simple Fitness Habit - http://simplefitnesshabit.com/



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How to be Mindful about Creative Overload

Thursday, May 22, 2014


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What is creative overload?

This weekend I experienced something that I never thought would happen. I had creativity overload big time.

I've heard of information overload (I deal with it as a librarian) and there's also creative blocks (like writer's block). To have an overabundance of creative ideas is normally a good thing. But for some reason, my brain just wouldn't work.

I had so many ideas going through head and I have a ton of individual projects I'm working on. And all of sudden, my brain refused to cooperate. I even had the weekend to work on things, on projects I needed to get done sooner rather than later.

What did I do?

How was I going to get over this? I needed my brain to function ASAP (nobody would work on my creative projects but me!). I spent Friday night fighting it. And then I decided to do one thing.

I listened. I tuned into what my brain was telling me and I couldn't remember the last time I took a break from doing stuff. So, I put my creative projects aside. I watched movies and read all weekend to give my tired brain a rest.

And it felt great! By listening and being mindful, I was more productive after the weekend. On Monday, I churned out 10 pages of a writing project that I had been dreading.

Be mindful 

When dealing with overload or an overabundance of anything, remember to tune in and be mindful of what your body is telling you. Do you sense any resistance? If so, then you might need a break. Take the opportunity to rest and return to your creative projects with renewed energy.

Thank you for reading! Until next time :)
Melissa

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